Friendship

The Other day this popped up on my Facebook Feed.  Some deep thoughts from 2012. 

Today I was reflecting on the amazing friendships I have/have had and this is what poured out.....
Friends: If you look in the dictionary there is sure to be a definition that most people would agree with. If we look into our own hearts that definition might read differently. 
I believe that a friend is a person that offers you respect perhaps when you aren't able to respect yourself. Offers honesty even when it may be difficult to hear. Offers empathy and compassion instead of judgment when it's clear that's what is needed. We all have difference circumstances that have brought us to this point. We truly don't know if another can handle "Our Way" of walking the path on their journey. I believe that a friend may not agree with all your choices but loves you anyway. I believe that a friend is honest with you when you are not seeing eye to eye. I believe that a friend is someone you can call, after not talking/living near each other for years, and they will come and hold your hand. I believe a friend will pull you out of the way when a train is heading towards you. I believe a friend allows you to vent if needed and then helps you move on. I believe that a friend offers you a shoulder to cry on. I believe in moments of loss they extend their love, kindness, food, support even if it's difficult because they understand one day they will be in the same position. I believe that a friendship is not conditional on you being Happy in every moment. I believe that a friend helps you up when you have fallen apart. I believe that a friend celebrates you in your accomplishments. I believe that a friend lets you know when you are not being your highest self. I believe a friend gives constructive criticism but is not critical or trying to change you. I believe that a friend is there for all stages that they feel comfortable with and is loving to them upon the path. Sometimes this is walking away. I believe that to build friendships you must be open to that loving light in all of us. I believe that to have a friend you must be a friend. Finding the balance and what unconditional friendship means isn't an easy task. It's hard to want someone around that you love but you know it's best to let go. And it's hard to hold on "out of friendship" when the love exchange is complete. Listen, love, respect, cherish, celebrate, Be Grateful!! I believe that a friend is the best gift you can give yourself. Thank you for Blessing me with such loving angels throughout my life.  xo